Don’t date yourself with a trendy hairstyle on your wedding day. Classic upswept styles – chignons, French twists, and ponytails – transcend decades. In general, it’s wise to wear your hair in a way that isn’t too far removed from your usual style. If you normally wear bangs or part your hair on a particular side, for instance, incorporate that look into your do. Schedule an appointment with your hairdresser at least two months before the wedding – that way, you’ll have enough time to work through any problems.

Bring your veil, headpiece, and earring to the appointment as well as a photo of your gown and magazine pictures of styles you like. If you want to wear fresh flowers in your hair on your wedding day, talk to your stylist about how to coordinate this with your florist.